Friday, September 11, 2015

Happy Birthday Joanie


Happy Birthday Joanie!!

Even though you have chosen not to speak to me since September 2008
I want you to know that I think of you often, wondering how you are doing.

Like I have said to many, 
I don't know what I did to you
that makes you hate me so
but I want you to know

I love you!

I wish you would speak to me
and tell me what is wrong.

Matthew 18:18 tell us

and so I don't understand how you can claim to love Jesus
and be a Christian YET refuse to even speak to me.

Jesus tells us to love one another
and yet you despise me.

I just don't get how you can say and do things
that conflict radically from each other.

I asked our niece to see if you would allow her to give me your address
so I could send you a birthday card
Your reply - NO!

What gives?
What do you think Mom, Dad or Kathy
think about how you refuse to speak to me.

You have nephews who have grown into some of the
best young men around and yet you choose to act like they don't exist.

Your stubborness is causing you to miss out on so much.

Do you even care that you have a great niece or four great nephews?

I thought long and hard before writing this post.
But I have heard through the grapevine that 
you read my blog so I am putting this out there.

Happy Birthday Dear Sister!

I am saddened to think that you have no siblings in your life, 
no nephews.  I am thankful that at times you speak with our niece.

Wouldn't it be nice to have a family get together
and encourage one another?

I think so.
Your niece thinks so.
Your nephews would love for you to meet their families.

I can only do so much.
So once again, 
I am reaching out to you.

Wondering if you will accept the offer
to connect once again.

I love you.
Ron loves you.

Happy Birthday Joanie!!!

2 comments:

  1. Forgiveness is freedom and bitterness is bondage. I think this quote from Oswald Chambers tells us how we are to live as God's children. It's not always easy.


    The Spirit of God is always the spirit of liberty; the spirit that is not of God is the spirit of bondage, the spirit of oppression and depression. The Spirit of God convicts vividly and tensely, but He is always the Spirit of liberty. God who made the birds never made birdcages; it is men who make birdcages, and after a while we become cramped and can do nothing but chirp and stand on one leg. When we get out into God's great free life, we discover that that is the way God meant us to live "the glorious liberty of the children of God." (Oswald Chambers)

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    1. I agree Leslie. I know I have done things to hurt others and have tried to right those wrongs. And you are so right forgiveness is freedom. Though I may never forget some of the things from my past I have forgiven my abusers and it was truly freeing. I believe many of my blessings in life are because I chose to forgive, move on and continue to put God first in every part of my life.

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